Ellen Nguyen
I help people understand themselves better and create a life they love
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Ellen Nguyen
Sometimes The Best Thing Someone Can Do For You Is Let You Go
If they don’t actively choose to be with you and make that happen right now, they can’t be right for you.
Here’s Why People Often Meet The Love Of Their Life When They’re Not Looking
When people stop looking, they drop the pressure of being a certain way to fit in with someone’s ideas of a dream partner.
9 Toxic Things You Don’t Realize You’re Doing Because You’re Afraid Of Being Single Forever
Single people constantly have to dodge curious and judgmental questions from friends, family, or even strangers about their relationship status.
10 Foolproof Steps For Healing A Shattered Heart
You’re not alone and you will survive this —no, thrive from this —I promise.
False Intimacy Is Exhausting And I’m Over It
I’m tired of this fakery routine of modern dating. I’m tired of my own conditioned superficiality
Darling, Please Follow Your Softness
To all the soft souls out there, it’s time to accept yourself for all the ways you are and you are not, for all your needs, no matter how big or small.
How To Open Yourself To Love When It Feels Like You’ve Been Hurt Too Many Times
Getting hurt many times can make you lose faith in love, but not all relationships hurt you — only the bad ones do.
Why You Should Stop Looking For Love And Start Building Yourself
People don’t love you for the emotional energy you put in the relationship; they love you for who you are.
How To Decide That Being Yourself Is Enough
You decide being yourself is enough when you’re done seeking approval from others and learn the hard way that no one can do this for you except you.
In 2019, I Hope You’ll Stop Waiting For Your Life To Begin
From now till the end of life, please make it worthwhile.
You Don’t Determine My Happiness Anymore
You don’t determine my happiness anymore because you’re not supposed to determine my happiness. Ever. No one is, except for myself.
This Is How Each Attachment Style Finally Falls In Love
Whether it’s secure, anxious-ambivalent, anxious-avoidant, or disorganized attachment, each group comes with its own pros and cons.