Ella Ceron

Go to a museum, see a band or a sports game live, or watch a play or a musical. Experience culture without the help of an illuminated screen.

They’re more ready to do something for you than they will ask something from you.

Some Saturdays you want to spend going out until 4 am, belting out the lyrics to ‘Closing Time’ with the rest of the bar, but the rest of the weekend, it’s not unheard of if you don’t even leave your apartment.

In either instance, be it in their professional or personal lives, the victims of the leak were acting of their own agency. And this in itself is infuriating to the people who think that they shouldn’t.

Seasons are arbitrary, anyway. The best clothes are the ones that transcend style eras.

The last time somebody hit on you, you secretly wondered if someone had put them up to a bet.

Runger is real. Runger is vicious. Sometimes the only way to survive is to give in.

No, love might not (and probably won’t) look like the checklist you think it will. And if you keep your sights and hopes set on someone who doesn’t materialize, you’ll miss all the other people who come along and might surprise you.

If you could ask someone of the opposite sex any question and get an honest answer, what would it be?

No one in the history of ever has been given something because they wanted it really badly. Everyone wants things really badly. The people who earn their dreams do so with a lot of hard work.

Any time anyone expresses fascination in giving you a makeover or helping you pick out clothes, you feel slightly like a Barbie doll that’s been given charity.

Is it scary? Yes. Of course it is. But most things that are worth doing have their risks.

You regularly dream about the days when you didn’t have to think about what to wear in the morning.

Everything is going great, you think — you have chemistry, you click, you have shared interests and your conversations never lull — and then, boom. He’s gone.

We decided to sit down and ask each other everything you’ve wanted to ask your best friend of the opposite sex… but haven’t. The caveat? We had to answer with complete honesty.

You know, all along, that this is someone with a heart in shards, a soul in pieces, and little affection and warmth and stability to give you — you won’t blame them for it, they need all the resources they can give themselves — yet you still try.

“Well, I wouldn’t get that.”

We decided to sit down and ask each other a few key questions about the pros and cons of dating someone on the opposite spectrum.