Elissa Sanci

Yes, ‘Break Even’ may be exactly what you’re feeling at this moment, but trust me, you don’t need to reminded at this moment that he was the always the best part of you or that you’re all choked up while she’s okay.

A person has multiple soul mates meant to come in and out of his or her life over the years. Each serves a purpose, and once that purpose is served, the two go their separate ways, just a brief intersection on the infinite plane of life.

I know who will be giving a drunken toast atop a table at my wedding, swaying with her drink in her hand and I know I will always have people in my corner to back me up, no matter what.

Over-thinkers are often the cause of their own problems. It is not above an over-thinker to worry and stress about something to the point where they cause themselves to get sick. In many cases, over-thinkers will pick and pull at an opportunity until they eventually ruin it, blowing it for themselves.

Do not get into a serious relationship when you’re young — I cannot stress this enough. Learn to be yourself first.

You have to pick those pieces up eventually, because the longer you leave them on the ground, the more time they have to disintegrate, and soon, they’ll stop looking they way they used to. You have to glue yourself together again, because if you don’t, soon you won’t recognize who you are anymore.

But first love is not only love. It’s not the best love, or the last love. First love is first, and it’s wonderful and amazing and new, but first is not synonymous with forever. And first is definitely not connected, whatsoever, to final.

Step 2: Panic and call every single friend you have, begging for a ride to work. That’s a bust. Contemplate calling in sick for the day — also a bust, you really need the money.

I always say yes whenever anyone asks me to hang out, because maybe it’ll be a good distraction, and maybe it’ll help me to forget.

The notion that members of Greek life join just for the parties is perhaps maybe the stupidest. You don’t join a sorority for the weekends; you join a sorority for life.

It will be different loving you because you are not him, and he is all I knew. You’ll teach me to love loving you.

Loved. It’s hard to wrap my mind around — loved, not loves. Was, not is. Once, not always.