Courtney Ciandella

Do I continuously try to make improvements in my life? 

I hope in the year ahead you change your mind.

Even when your friends warned you of the inevitable heartbreak they feared would happen, you refused to open your eyes to his imperfections.

Arguing can be a sign of a healthy relationship.

The best types of relationships are the ones without any expectations.

You do not know what happened. The all-consuming love you felt not that long ago just disappeared in front of your eyes.

While I may be picky, I think that’s what makes the search for love exciting.

It’s imperative that we continue our connections for we don’t know how long this order will last.

Our relationship that I thought would last a lifetime expired before I knew it.

Yes, you may have surpassed the age of ring pops and finger puppet favors, but your birthday is still a day to be celebrated.

The next time your phone goes off, you have already trained your mind to ignore it. You are prepared to hit “Do Not Disturb” as soon as his name appears on the screen to end another game of his before it begins.

Walking in nature could be one of the most relaxing things to do in the universe.

While I appreciate your kindness and well wishes for my future, I’m okay with being on my own.

Whether you’re all happily in relationships and gearing up for a romantic weekend getaway with your bae or you’re happily riding the singles bus, one day a year should be dedicated to your girls, no interruptions.

She can listen to your stories and silly jokes for hours, for what feels like minutes, before eventually noticing you are the only two left in the room.

I wish we had spent more time together. That we took advantage of the days we had and cherished the moments that time would allow.

She may not answer your texts right away.

To the man who opened up his heart to me even when he was afraid to.