Dating 11 Stages Of A Break-Up (In Gifs) 4. You go through a #dark mental space By Chrissy Stockton Updated 8 months ago, May 7, 2024 Solidarity. 1. You don’t know what you did wrong 2. You feel extreme hatred for your ex, in particular 3. You hate the opposite sex, in general 4. You go through a #dark mental space 5. You Don’t Believe in Love 6. You go a little crazy to blow off steam 7. You’re always on guard that you may run into your ex 8. You realize you made mistakes too, and can learn from them 9. You have a small victory 10. You realize it’s been days since you last thought about your ex 11. You finally feel hopeful about the future again