Christine Hassler

Make a commitment to yourself that you will stop going to people who cannot dish out what you are craving. Love and accept them for who they are; they are doing the best they can.

Are you in a relationship with someone hoping that they change and if they did everything would just get better?

Boundaries not only prevent us from getting resentful and eventually throwing up a barrier, they also save us from being a doormat.

Your relationship status does not define you and it absolutely should not impact the amount of love you feel.

Don’t make ANY assumptions when it comes to love. You can get the love you want, but not by expecting others to be mind-readers. And you can give the love others need by being willing to adjust to their love language.

Your patterns became habits because of repetition. In order to rewire your brain and break up with all those unconscious thoughts that have driven you in the past, you must repeat new behavior.

When you truly fall in love with yourself and know you are the “one” you have been looking forward, you will see that everyone is a soulmate and the only one that completes you is you.

When a relationship ends we are never 100 percent victims. We need to take 100 percent responsibility for our 50 percent of the relationship.

The beautiful thing about getting our heart broken is that it cracks us open to raw and powerful emotions that we generally try to avoid. k.

Instead of focusing on what you don’t have — bring your awareness to what you do have.

Contrary to what romantic comedies may have us believe, this is actually fairly common and not necessarily a bad thing.