Chelsea Ellise

If someone holds a grudge, that’s their problem- not yours.

“I was insecure and looking for anybody to validate me and build me up because at that time, I couldn’t do it myself, so any guy who showed interest made me feel worth something, validated, hot, whatever. It was pathetic but that was my struggle.”

We are sorry that you are one of the women of this world that is a sole example of why women so often hate one another.

Remember to stop and look around, Appreciate the simple things, Like beautiful everyday sounds.

You will learn things about yourself you didn’t know.
 You will be put in situations that let you discover things about yourself you may not have known.


I also realized, there are two kinds of people in this world. There are the people who feel sorry for themselves, dwell, ask “why me,” and sink into pity. Or, theres the people, who take whatever they are faced with and ricochet.

ultimately we will all realize that we need to stop fighting for the wrong people. Stop yearning for the people who keep us down. The people we fight for should be the ones that will go to the darkest, and deepest holes for us, only to bring us back up on their shoulders.

About two years ago I became entranced with the belief of practicing gratitude and the unbelievable results so many have said they’ve had in doing so.

If somebody great came along would I date them? Yes. But am I happy being single? You bet your ass I am.

So often I hear people preaching that we should live our lives with no regrets. However, I disagree. I have regrets-hundreds, perhaps thousands. And so may you.

There is a constant request for women to try and discover WHY men cheat so frequently. Well, I sat down 6 men who were willing to describe to me and tell me why they have ended up cheating.

In this day and age, there is no denying that it is hard to be a woman. Everywhere we look, we are faced with unrealistic expectations of what we should be and how we should look.



Perhaps one of the hardest pills to swallow is breaking up when you don’t want to. Another hard, if even bigger pill to swallow is when you don’t know why, or can’t figure out how the person you were closest with, could so easily turn their back and forget you and what you shared with them.

Not everybody who is depressed seems sad.

It is not always about body issues.

Know what your passion(s) and hobbies are and do them often. Having passions and or hobbies are so important.

1. Text him all day, every day and ask him why he’s ignoring you when he doesn’t respond quickly enough.

He will always stick by you and have your back. You can trust the nice guy the same way you trust your girlfriends, because he’s never going to break your trust.