Carlyn Beccia
Author, illustrator, uglitarian & people watcher.
Articles by
Carlyn Beccia
When Someone Shows You Who They Are, Don’t Always Believe Them The First Time
Don’t fall prey to victim signaling.
How Math Can Help You Find Love
There’s an elegant proof in both math and love.
How To Better Handle The Pain Of Rejection
Find the sweet spot between hubris and pride.
How Omitting Explanations Will Make Your “No” So Much More Powerful
“No” closes the door. “Because” leaves it open a crack and lets the vermin inside.
The Unedited Truth About Why I Ghosted Him
You don’t always owe someone an explanation.
There Are Only 4 Love Languages—Not 5
This is why we need to stop calling physical touch a love language.
How I Caught My Ex Cheating
To catch a liar, I built a web of lies.
My Life As A (Temporary) Blonde
With the world stuck inside, no one is probably thinking about their hair right now. I debated if I wanted to embrace my “just escaped from a crypt” pandemic look or play chemist and dye my hair blonde.