Bryan Reeves

By simply observing my inner world throughout my years, I have discovered, to both my joy and despair, that I can find within me every human emotion and behavior imaginable.

Our rational brains are supposed to do all the figuring out while our testosterone-filled balls supply the driving force.

We too often use women, porn, or other men, to distract ourselves from that deep, unfulfilled longing inside our hearts that would have us fully surrender to love.

No one asks when you’re happy in relationship, “Why aren’t you single?”

Having no idea how to please her, he gives up, shrinks his hobbled feelings even more until he shuts down altogether. Relationship over.

Women fear something far more common in our everyday world. Something us men even fear in ourselves, though most aren’t even conscious we’re doing it.

The only way to lasting fulfillment in relationship is by offering my love freely without expecting anything in return for it.

Authenticity and Awesome happen the moment you stop trying to control the world around you…a futile exercise, anyway.

He’s physically present, but all she feels is the actual solidity of his body.

He wants her to communicate openly and even call out his bullshit…but respectfully.

Porn ruins our erections with actual women.

I wish I could say I figured this one out by myself, but a lady friend had to point this out. Once she did, I looked back to my own intimate relationships and saw overwhelming evidence for her case everywhere.

You can’t make someone choose you, even when they might love you.