Bob Alaburda

Relationships require a TON of effort. That’s why casual dating exists. You want to try people on for size before you settle in and really make a go of it. Sometimes, you can tell right away.

Sometimes, you put your whole heart into a relationship and spend forever waiting for the other person to do the same. That’s when it hurts.

Showering together can seem like a steamy proposition what with the steam and all, but is it all it’s cracked up to be?

Putting a penis in a vagina is pretty great, but what if I told you that you could get even closer to your partner than being physically connected via sex organs?

Your sign manifests itself through your personality, and therefore, your sex appeal. Here’s what makes each sign sexy in their own way.

Sharing a bed with your partner can be a revealing exercise about what we’re truly capable of as human beings.

There are basically two ways relationships appear on Facebook, and they’re both bad.

Every friend group has one — the “mature, responsible adult” that can be counted on to keep everyone alive against all odds when happy hour turns into an all-night shit show.

Everything you do is a reflection of yourself — yes, even stuffing another person’s genitals in your mouth.

Everyone knows that when you’re standing in line at Starbucks, you instantly judge everyone around you based on the drink they order. Venti frap? Indulgent sweet tooth. Something I can’t pronounce? Pretentious.

We all have certain preconceptions when it comes to our birth order. The baby of the family is supposed to be spoiled, and the middle child is starved for attention. And like the predictable humans we are, we just want to know what that means for our sex life.

So for all those times you thought a guy might be interested in you, but decided he wasn’t because he hasn’t said a word, here’s what was going through his head.

Sex is a learned skill. So, the more you do it, the better you’ll get at it, right? Wrong.

Things are different in your 30s. If you’re a twenty-something, that might be hard to imagine from where you’re standing. But think about what you wanted out of life ten years ago. Was it absolutely ridiculous?

Questioning whether or not “size matters” usually revolves around men, but it can apply to women, too

Everyone knows the stereotype: men are hunters whose only goal in sex is conquest. We’re driven to “spread our seed” and want for nothing more than physical satisfaction.

Breaking up sucks. You’ve invested time, money, love and a part of yourself, ultimately for nothing. But was it really all for naught?

The quickest route to arousal is through the penis, sure, but sometimes it’s more fun to take the scenic route through foreplay. Here are 6 things to play with that will make him wonder why he neglected the rest of his body for so long