Becca Martin

If you get invited somewhere you’re always the first person to say yes. You don’t have to check-in with anyone or sort out your plans, if you’re free you go because adventure awaits.

If you have an opportunity, embrace it full on because travel is worth it. Travel will humble you, it will test you and break you, but it will ultimately make you a better person.

The guy you have to basically throw yourself at isn’t the kind of guy you want to be with. You don’t want to have to fight for his attention; you don’t want to have to make a fool of yourself for someone to notice you because while you’re noticing him he might be noticing someone else.

Querencia — a place from which one’s strength is drawn, where one feels at home; the place where you are your most authentic self.

“I’m insecure about cumming too soon, I think that is every guys worry. No one wants to cum in 30 seconds, it’s embarrassing and it’s a huge turn off for her. So basically, like everyone dude, we just try to think of things that are non-arousing to last.”

When he was around the sun burned brighter and the world turned faster, he became the center of your tiny world and made it feel so much bigger. He didn’t have to do much, but the feelings he gave you were immense and as hard you tried, you couldn’t push them away.

The way you care so deeply about everything is such a blessing, even if it does feel like a curse from time to time. It allows you to feel everything more and experience moments that others miss out on by covering their emotions.

Every single person on this world has flaws and failures, everyone has times they don’t feel good enough and things they are unsure about, but it is what we do with those things that is important.

“I just wish she’d take control sometimes. I know she likes to be dominated, but it’s so hot when women just take control and lead the way it takes some of the pressure off us.”

Don’t be with someone who doesn’t fill you with pleasure to the core, especially from the start. Don’t force a relationship because you’re lonely or you’re tired of being on your own.

There is a whole life to live outside doing things for others. I promise you life will continue if you start putting yourself first, just like I promise you the sun will continue to rise and set every day and every night without you guiding it.

You can fall for someone way out of your league. You can fall for someone taller than you wanted or maybe shorter than you. You can fall for someone with blue eyes when all you wanted someone with brown. Life doesn’t care about your expectations.

I don’t want mediocre relationships that will fizzle and fade. I want realistic relationships that will last forever, not even only pertaining to love, but with friendships and relationships in general.

It’s not that I want to forget about you, because I don’t, not completely anyways. You became a huge part of my life, but that’s the thing. You were just a part of it.

“I used to jack off while I was on long drives, it would keep me awake and I would play the porn through my car speakers. It was kind of fucked up, but whatever. Except the last time I did it I got pulled over because a cop saw what I was doing. I got a ticket and he was repulsed.”

“I talk to guys because I’m not sure if I’m interested in them or not. They might have a stellar personality, but I’m just not sure if they’re for me or not on the sexual/dating level. So I try to keep my options open and stay kind.”

Some days he seems really into it and everything seems perfect. You’re convinced he likes you and you spent the best day together. Then he gets flaky again, you wonder where you went wrong, you question if he likes you, and you drive yourself crazy trying to dissect every little thing.

Maybe in another life I wouldn’t be so unsure of everything. Maybe I wouldn’t spend so much time over thinking and wondering what my life could be like if I traveled here or moved there. Maybe if I knew what I wanted I could settle down, but I don’t, not in this life anyways.