Becca Martin

I think I’d rather live in the unknown that’s filled with hope because the only thing stronger than fear is hope.

You are not weak for loving them and you are not weak for thinking that they might have changed because you honestly want the best for the people you love.

Everyone has bad days, days where they feel defeated and like the world is against them, but the most important thing to remember is that bad days don’t last.

You want to be with someone who can look at you and still tell you that no matter how angry you make them that they still love you.

But as many people as I kiss, their lips will never fill the emptiness inside me from missing being loved from someone who I actually care about and who actually cares about me, too.

It’s important to remember that no matter what you’re allowed to have bad days. You’re allowed to have a break down and you’re allowed to cry. You just can’t unpack your bags and live in self-pity.

I want to listen to someone I care about talk about their day, not just read a message over a phone screen saying it was good.

“Confidence in herself and also being able to laugh at herself. Knowing that she is comfortable in her own skin is such a turn on.”

Maybe it’s just that I can’t imagine anyone looking at me with love in their eyes because I feel like I’m the girl who wasn’t made to be loved.

“A liar. I am instantly turned off by someone who constantly lies, like come on being honest isn’t that hard and it’s essential in a relationship.” – Jack, 31

She found someone who is crazy about her, actually head over heels crazy about her. He constantly looks at her like she’s the only person in the world.

I’ve grown to love myself with all my flaws so that I can learn to love others for their flaws.

You don’t get to come into her life again when she’s trying to heal and reopen the wounds, the wounds that you left her with.

It’s kind of like she’s Taylor Swift and you’re the no one in the background of all her pictures. People see you, but their focus is all on her.

I miss pulling someone a little closer when they’re about to pull away from a hug because you don’t want to let them go. But more than anything, I miss having someone to miss.

I still cry at sad songs, but not because they remind me of you.

I want you to love me for the way I wear my hair in a towel after I get out of the shower and have black smeared all under my eyes.

I’ll always pull for happy couples in love, always, always, always because I don’t see any other way to live.