Ashley Pariseau

No one said it would be easy to heal from past trauma, but it is extremely important to do anything you can.

There are many ways a man can improve himself to attract a woman of value, but for now let’s take a minute to focus on the basics of what he can start doing right now to become generally much more dateable.

They dare to exist on their own terms and wouldn’t think for a second of trading that for the approval of anyone else.

The first time you see each other ugly cry.

It took time and self-searching, but I came into understanding my worth as a woman, as a human being.

She works hard and pays her own bills because she knows that what grown ass adults are supposed to do.

Doing as you please, and not giving a damn what others think.

It has given me a new perspective and I have taken on a newfound appreciation for life itself. It has helped me understand how valuable, fragile, and beautiful life really is.

Without passion in a relationship, there is no energy, and without energy, you have nothing.

Don’t let anyone tell you how it has to be.

What are you grateful for?

In reality, men don’t fall in love with perfect girls. They want women who they can connect with and relate to.

Create the life you’ve always imagined, with your dream home, in the town you love most.

Guys pretty much know instantly whether or not they want to date you. Very rarely do they think, “Well after being friends with her for two months, I realized I was attracted to her and wanted to spend more time with her.”

I’m writing this not to scare you, but to prepare you. Through it all, you will figure it out. You are going to grow up to be a badass dame with a fiery heart and wicked mind.

A boy wants a girlfriend. He’ll take whatever girl he finds cute and nice that will give him the time of day.

A girl wants attention. She seeks to have all eyes on her. A woman commands respect.

Being introverted isn’t about being weak, it’s about understanding what makes you strong.