Allana Pratt

If you begin seeing legitimate red flags, it is a sign that they are attempting to create space away from you, but the reason may not be what you think.

1. You’re born with a family. You can’t choose your family.

Did you do your work? Are you both engaged in the work?

How do you look at someone who cares so much about you and tell them that you don’t feel the same way, that your heart belongs somewhere else?

We are the vessel through which sacred energy, sexual energy, life force energy, radiance comes in us, as us, and through us. If we stop that flow, we’re sad, cranky, and exhausted.

Let’s not reject. Let’s not be superior. We are all doing our best.

This doesn’t mean the relationship is bad or wrong.

How should people respond to unsolicited advice?

Communication is a beautiful dance that takes time, effort, and commitment. Just like ballroom dancing, you must be in-sync with one another, follow each other’s guidance, and accept the flow.

What do we truly want in a man?

Stop letting yes or no define you. Stop giving away your power due to fear of the unknown. Do not let them be the source of your self-worth.

To break free, men have to release all of the judgment from within and from others.

Can we really say that the day is any better than the night? That the waves coming in are any better than the waves going out? That the inhale is any better than the exhale? That our partner in fear is inferior to our partner in joy? 

So, what would it take to change this perspective? To love our bodies and see them for their glory rather than their faults?

What if you could decide all of this AND only choose to be someone with which that would work?