Heidi Priebe
Heidi is the author of The Comprehensive ENFP Survival Guide, and The Comprehensive INFP Survival Guide.
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‘Hating People’ Doesn’t Make You An Introvert… It Makes You A Person Who Hates People
It’s easy to misidentify our personality types. We do so all the time – from taking inaccurate online tests, to consuming online articles that portray false information about what it means to be an introvert, extrovert, feeler, thinker, etc… there are plenty of clouding factors that get in the way. But one of the most…
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10 Micro-Signs That Your Luck Is About To Pivot For The Better
So your life has been a little monotonous for a long time now. So you’re struggling to figure out what comes next. So some days, you feel *this close* to giving up on your dreams altogether. But hold on. Chances are, you’re a whole lot closer to that Big Change you need than you think…
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Why Our World Needs Each Myers-Briggs Personality Type
The world needs ENFPs to inspire people who have lost their purpose and can’t find their way. The world needs INFPs to mend broken spirits and inspire great compassion. The world needs ENFJs to guide and mentor those who cannot find a way to go on. The world needs INFJs to understand the human condition…
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7 Things You Should Know Before You Date An ENFP
ENFPs are all-or-nothing people in their lives and in love. They take romantic relationships seriously, yet approach them with enthusiasm and warmth. ENFPs crave meaningful connections with their partners and are likely to leave a relationship early on if that connection is absent. This type is best matched with an INFJ or INTJ — these…
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Please Wait For The Person Who Makes Love Easy
For a very long time growing up, I assumed that the strongest relationships were the messiest ones. After all, conflict was the main focus of every romantic comedy I watched growing up. Every romance novel I read. Every TV show, every dramatic story, every think piece – it all centered around drama and fighting. Fighting…
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I Am Not Going To Miss You In 2025
I spent every day of 2024 missing you. That’s the sort of thing we’re not supposed to admit out loud: that we can spend entire years caught up in the memory of somebody else, even when our lives are expanding and taking off around us. We’re supposed to be stronger than that. We’re supposed to…
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Screw Resolutions – In 2025, Just Go For It
Chase the dream you can’t ignore—it’s waited long enough, and so have you. Every year, we make a predictable and well-intentioned list of New Year’s Resolutions. Lose weight. Change careers. Find love. Save money. There’s nothing wrong with committing to self-improvement. Some years, we truly make those steady, consistent changes that lead to better places.…
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I Refuse To Marry Anyone Unless These Are Our Wedding Vows
Marriage isn’t about settling down; it’s about taking off. That is, if you find the right person. Marrying you is not the end of my liberty; it’s the beginning of it. You’re the person I want to dive headfirst into life with. When I go out on the weekends, it is you I want shutting…
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How You Know It’s Time To Leave
When you reach into the depths of your memory and can barely remember the last time you felt terrified. The last time nerves pirouetted through your throat. The last time you woke up in the morning with the simple, immeasurable fear that you could mess up something big. That there was something in your life…
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Read This If You’re Struggling To Forgive Someone Right Now
As the year closes, maybe it’s time to think about forgiveness. I hate every cliché that exists about forgiveness. I know every adage, every piece of advice, every regularly endorsed opinion on the topic because I’ve scoured my way through the literature. I’ve read every blog post about letting go of anger. I’ve written down…
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Why Moving On After Cheating Is Tougher Around The Holidays
It’s hard to get over a cheater because the only person you hate more than them is yourself. It is hard to get over a cheater because when you leave the relationship, there are two people you must mourn. One is the asshole who cheated on you, in all their flawed, unfaithful glory. This is…
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10 Micro-Signs That Your Luck Is About To Take A Turn For The Better
So your life has been a little monotonous for a long time now. So you’re struggling to figure out what comes next. So some days, you feel *this close* to giving up on your dreams altogether. But hold on. Chances are, you’re a whole lot closer to that Big Change you need than you think…
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Here’s What Would Happen If We Put The Myers-Briggs Characters Into The Hunger Games
INFP – Since all fiction novels seem to be written by INFPs for INFPs with the message that the person with the kindest heart wins, this type often assumes that they would champion the Hunger Games. In the real hunger games the INFP is first to get shot off their podium because they were daydreaming…
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Why It’s So Hard To Get Over A Cheater
It is hard to get over a cheater because when you leave the relationship, there are two people you must mourn. One is the asshole who cheated on you, in all their flawed, unfaithful glory. This is the person it is easy to get mad at, the person it is easy to cut off contact…
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The Truth About Meeting Someone At The Wrong Time
Timing is something that none of us can seem to get quite right with relationships. We meet the person of our dreams the month before they leave to go study abroad. We form an incredibly close friendship with an attractive person who is already taken. One relationship ends because our partner isn’t ready to get…
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If You’re Confused About Your Myers-Briggs Personality Type: An Intro To Cognitive Functions
If your first introduction to the world of Myers-Briggs was through an online test, chances are you’re confused about your type. Online tests are notorious for giving inaccurate/changing results, for the following reasons: (1) The questions are overly theoretical and can be unclear. (2) The self-bias factor (that is, seeing yourself as you’d like to…
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I Surveyed Each Myers-Briggs Type to Find Their Top Attraction – Here Are the Results
It’s no secret that certain personality types have a history of getting together with certain other personality types – so much so that various theories have emerged discussing which types are the ‘ideal matches’ for which other types. Below, I went straight to the horses mouth and surveyed over 1700 personality enthusiasts to determine where…
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