75 People Share The Weird Little Random Things That Turn Them On

"Girl smell. Like if I let a girl borrow one of my jackets, when she returns it I will wear it all day. It's just so comforting."

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When a girl puts her hair up—not a ponytail, but a bun with some messy hair falling out of it, it’s just so elegant and sexy.

And when a guy rolls up his sleeves to do something, then gets all businesslike whilst showing dem forearms off. Unf.

2.

Dimples. I would rather a girl flash me her dimples than her boobs. And I love boobs.

3.

Watching anyone drive stick. Men, women, I don’t care, if I’m in the car and I see you do it I’m gonna have to try not to mount you.

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Trace the scars life has left you. It will remind you that at one point, you fought for something. You believed.

Trace the scars life has left you. It will remind you that at one point, you fought for something. You believed.

“You are the only person who gets to decide if you are happy or not—do not put your happiness into the hands of other people. Do not make it contingent on their acceptance of you or their feelings for you. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter if someone dislikes you or if someone doesn’t want to be with you. All that matters is that you are happy with the person you are becoming. All that matters is that you like yourself, that you are proud of what you are putting out into the world. You are in charge of your joy, of your worth. You get to be your own validation. Please don’t ever forget that.” — Bianca Sparacino

Excerpted from The Strength In Our Scars by Bianca Sparacino.