Here’s What Secretly Drives You Crazy, According To Your Birth Order
"People stop inviting you places, and you are judged publicly for all of your private insecurities."
By Peace Ofure
You birth order has a significant effect on your personality and behavior in life. Below are various things that would drive you mad based on your birth order.
for the Firstborn…
– Finding out that you have absolutely no ability to contribute ideas, content, or achieve anything.
– Having no structure in place or incredibly flimsy “structure” that might as well not be structure at all.
– Having no one see your hard work and to be lumped in with “the rest of the team” every time, no matter how much you accomplish.
– To be forced to spontaneous in ways that you are not at all open to.
– Never having the opportunity to lead as an available option.
– You are viewed as incredibly incompetent at work, at home, when you are volunteering, in transit, etc. No one has faith in you.
– You stop having dreams and are unable to plan potential next steps.
FOR THE Middle Child…
– All of your friends have packed up their backs and left for a vacation that you are not invited to.
– You are in the middle of a lot of arguments and you can’t fix any of them.
– All of your rebellious efforts are commended as honorable and highly conscientious so you are never able to make a statement.
– Being surround by injustice and not being able to do anything about it. At all.
– People start defining you severely and won’t let you “be who you are” and refuse to let you have an opinion.
– You are forced to prove yourself constantly and are always being compared to a sibling.
for the Youngest child…
– No one pays attention to you and thinks that you are annoying.
– Friends always bail on you and never want to be seen in public with you.
– Everyone ignores your ideas.
– Nothing works out for you, ever. You are forced to plan out every moment.
– Your life become monotonous and you can no longer tell the days apart
– You are made to work at a low position (with zero advancement opportunity), isolated from people and unable to socialize.
FOR THE Twin…
– Your twin gets married and moves to another country where you are unable to reach each other over the phone.
– Your twin starts sharing all of your secrets in public spaces because they stopped being able to tell if something was a personal secret or not.
– You are made to work long, boring hours alone without windows.
– Love interests stop seeing you as an individual and want to date you and your twin. Everywhere you go, you are forced to operate as the exact same person.
– Never being seen as an individual again, for as long as you live.
FOR THE Only Child…
– You singlehandedly disappoint everyone that comes into your path.
– No one finds you charming.
– You are unable to contain your rage and are seen as a wild person.
– You are labeled “most immature” at work.
– No matter how hard you try and plan, you are always 30 minutes late to everything that you are asked to be a part of.
– People stop inviting you places, and you are judged publicly for all of your private insecurities.