36 Sexually Experienced Women Share The Surprising Sex Wisdom They Wish Someone Had Told Them
That it's not supposed to hurt. I learned well into my 20's that when a woman is aroused, her cervix will move up and out of the way.
By 
Lisa Woods
1.
“Semen will come back out. Sometimes hours later.”
2.
“Your cervix changes position based on where you are in your cycle. Doggy style and deep thrusts can feel good one week, and hurt like a mother the next. This is perfectly normal, and should not cause alarm.”
3.
“That you shouldn’t be ashamed of what you find pleasure in. I spent way too much time feeling ashamed, and not enough time enjoying myself and my partner.”
4.
“This is something very important I learned at 19/20 years old. I was single, and wanted sex, and I just assumed guys who were into me wanted it too. So things would move really fast I would say ‘that was fun’ and go on about my business.
And OH BOY did guys start getting offended when I didn’t want to date them, or if I was talking to more than one guy at a time and one of them found out… I assumed it was just a sex thing… I didn’t think they wanted anything else… I was a moron. I literally didn’t correlate ‘I want to have sex with you’ to ‘…and you know, probably date you too.’ And of course I was too inexperienced to realize I should’ve confirmed these things beforehand. ‘Do you want more out of this, or are we just hooking up?’ Goes a long way. I wouldn’t have had sex with a couple of people if I’d known to ask this first.
But anyway now I am old and mostly monogamous so thank god those awful sexual blunder years are behind me and I know how to conduct myself as a kind, thoughtful human.”
5.
“Weird noises are inevitable and it’s ok to laugh. Bonus points if your (penis-owning) partner is inside of you. The laughing may tickle his penis and it’s really funny to watch him squirm.”
6.
It’s not supposed to hurt. If it does, stop, use lube, change position. If that doesn’t help, see the doctor.
