1. WHILE BEING MANHANDLED

“I like to think of myself as a strong, empowered, independent woman, and outside of the bedroom, that’s exactly what I am. But when I’m inside a bedroom, I want the guy to throw me around like I’m a dirty little rag doll. I don’t want him to hurt me, but I want him to be in command. In other words, I don’t want to be mistreated, but goddamn do I want to be manhandled. Just push me down over the bed and power-fuck me, that’s all I ask. I was with this guy once who was a car mechanic. He came home from banging out a dent in a fender and was all sweaty and greasy and oily and proceeded to bang out a dent in my pussy. I was so wet I could have mopped the floor.”

—Megan, 25

2. WHILE CALLING HIM DADDY

“I guess this means I’m messed up psychologically, but I have this whole ‘daddy’ thing. I used to date this guy who was quite a bit older than me and there are some fantasies that I won’t get into here, but yeah, we enacted them all. I’d call him ‘daddy’ and he’d call me his ‘little girl.’ And I was calling him ‘daddy’ while I was cumming.”

—Jen, 27

3. WHILE BLOWING A GUY

“The hardest I ever came was while blowing a guy. I am totally into the cock worship. With the guy in question, it wasn’t that he was the biggest, but that it was the most beautiful one—just to look at, the scent, the slightest hint of salt in the taste. I came like I was demon-possessed, and I was hardly even touching myself.”

—Erika, 27

4. I LOVE BEING SPANKED—HARD

“My parents used to spank me, and no, I didn’t like it then, but, yeah, I like it now—and I’m not sure how much one has to do with the other, but I’m pretty sure they’re related. This one guy who spanked me didn’t seem like he was going to stop. It scared me, but it was the combination of pain and fear that turned me wayyyyy the fuck on. I came like I’d been struck with a bolt of lightning.”

—Jolene, 24

5. WHEN HE GRUNTED IN MY EAR LIKE AN ANIMAL

“Me and my current boyfriend have always had great sex—that’s why he’s still my boyfriend!—but there was one time when he was on top and he grunted like an animal in my ear. It’s the same grunting sound he makes while bench-pressing. Um…yeah. Never been more turned-on in my life.”

—Robyn, 20

6. WHEN I FANTASIZE ABOUT HIM HAVING SEX WITH OTHER WOMEN

“My current boyfriend is so hot, and he’s been with so many girls, and so many girls are always coming onto him, that I’m pretty sure one day he’ll dump me for another girl. And this is really embarrassing to confess, but I get off when I fantasize about him leaving me for another woman. It’s kind of like the female version of a cuckold fetish, I guess? I cum really really hard whenever we’re having sex and I pretend he’s fucking some girl who is an ex of his or who works with him or who ‘Likes’ his pictures on Facebook. I have orgasms from being humiliated. Am I proud of it? No—that would ruin the whole point.”

—Andrea, 24

7. CUM-HUNGRY

“I have this cum fetish. I don’t like swallowing it, because it tastes gross and makes me gag. But it’s more like I’m a cake and I fantasize about a guy ‘frosting’ me—the more frosting, the better. Then I fantasize about walking around the house in pajamas with his frosting slowly leaking out of me. I don’t know why, but being filled with a guy’s cum drives me out of my mind. My toes are curling just describing this. So anyway, the best orgasm I ever had was while having sex with my boyfriend at a motel. He knows all about my cum fetish, so while we were doing it, he kept telling me about how he was going to fill me up with cum and then forbid me from going to the bathroom or keeping my legs open. He was going to make me lie in bed with my legs pressed tightly together so that not a drop of his cum would leak out. Wow. Yeah. That one sent me straight to Pluto, orgasm-wise.”

—Cherie, 28

8. WHILE FANTASIZING ABOUT HIS BEST FRIEND

“The hardest I ever came was this time I was pissed off at my boyfriend for standing me up on a Friday night, so on Saturday night when he decided to finally grace me with his presence for a lazy round of ‘Netflix and chill,’ I decided that my revenge would be to fantasize that I was fucking his best friend instead. And what sweet revenge it was.”

—Jessica, 23

9. WHILE CHEATING ON HIM WITH HIS BEST FRIEND

“We’d been arguing for weeks and he was being a complete and total dick, so one night when he was working I called his best friend and made up some story that the apartment was being flooded because I clogged the sink and he needed to come over but not to tell my boyfriend because he’d be pissed at me. Well, one thing naturally led to another, and it was just the whole symbolism of doing something so vicious as letting his best friend fuck me in our bed that put me over the top. I got so wet the apartment almost got literally flooded!”

—Brittney, 25

10. HE’S SO BIG, IT PISSES ME OFF

“I’m with a guy whose dick is so big, I have trouble walking for a few days after we fuck. I was once driving my niece to school and she asked me why I was sitting funny, OK? THAT’S how big this guy is. And it’s not because his dick hits all the right spots while we’re fucking, it’s just this primitive huntress feeling like I’ve captured the biggest animal in the jungle. I lose control just thinking about that. Thinking about it makes me feel so good, I almost get pissed at him because he makes me lose control.”

—Alana, 29

11. WITH HIS FORMER GIRLFRIEND!

“I’m romantically and sexually attracted to men. I’m not romantically attracted to women, but I have the best sex of my life with them. C’mon, now—girls know the the equipment! No guy on earth is going to know the ‘lay of the land’ down there like a girl does. So there was this one night with this guy where we got into a hugely bitter fight about money and other stupid stuff, so I called his former girlfriend to bitch about what a fucking asshole he is and how much I hate him and want him to die, etc., etc. Well, let’s just say she was way better than he was.”

—Erin, 22

12. WHEN HE DROVE 500 MILES JUST TO FUCK ME

“The most aroused I’ve ever been in my life was last summer when this guy I met online drove 500 miles from his city to mine just to fuck me. He was gorgeous, but that wasn’t what turned me on—it’s that he made that much effort just to hook up. Just thinking about that fact while we were having sex was the most turned on I’ve ever been.”

—Alli, 33

13. WHILE HUMILIATING MY BOYFRIEND

“This isn’t going to speak well for my character or maybe even my sanity, but even though my boyfriend is nice as hell, I can see myself pushing him down a flight of stairs while laughing. There’s just something about his personality—maybe it’s that he’s too nice—that makes me want to punish him. I get super turned on at the thought of him wearing an apron and cleaning the house, of sucking a dick, of me pegging him—just treating him like a dishrag. I know it’s not nice, but hey—you asked!”

—Etta, 22

14. IT’S THAT SMIRK OF HIS

“The time I was just over-the-top, out-of-my-mind turned on the most was when my boyfriend took a business trip to DC and I accompanied him. While we were doing it in the hotel that his business paid for, I thought about the way we breezed around town and how he handled people. How easily in control and effortlessly charming he always was. I just focused on how naturally sexy he was—and especially how he smirked at me as we were driving back to the hotel knowing that we were going to rip each other’s clothes off—yup. 10/10 would do again.”

—Amy, 28