When you’re, say, 50, being told you look young for your age is a compliment. At least that’s what I remind myself to help me get through the awkward stage of being 24 and mistaken for 20, 18, and once even 15. One day I’ll be thankful for my youthful look. But for now, I and my fellow younger-looking 20-somethings find ourselves in these predicaments on a regular basis.
1. Coworkers trying to teach you things you already know because they assume you’re at one of your first jobs
2. People directing their questions to your older-looking coworkers during meetings
3. Getting messages like this on online dating sites
4. Being hit on by people who look like children to you
5. Being overlooked by love interests your own age
6. Feeling suspicious of people your age who want to date you because it seems like they’re trying to rob the cradle
7. Servers asking if you need a kids’ menu
8. Movie ticket salespeople asking to see your student ID because they assume you’re buying a student ticket
9. Bartenders carding you while handing your younger friend a cocktail without second thoughts
10. People asking what school you go to or what you study whenever you do anything remotely collegiate, like sit at a cafe with your laptop or merely exist near a college campus
11. Airport security guards asking if you’re flying alone
12. Hearing “when I was your age” from people who currently are your age
13. Nurses being unable to locate your records because they were looking in pediatrics
14. Going to great lengths to cultivate an authoritative presence to compensate for your appearance during interviews and public speeches
15. Looking like you’re playing dress-up when you wear business casual
16. Feeling self-conscious to be seen in public with your parents because they’ll subtract even more years from your perceived age
